Skip to main content

Posts

Showing posts from March, 2016

How to lovingly reject a brother?

Someone asked me this question just recently and I thought it's a valid concern among women. What should a woman do when she don't like him back? Often, the way some women handle the situation is to reject him "without grace" either intentionally or unintentionally. I am guilty of this and I am speaking from experience as well as observations from other people.  Here are some of the common scenarios of handling how to reject a brother "without grace": 1. "Busy ako"- You make every excuse you can think of or say no to every invitation even if he asks for your available time next week or next month.   2. Mentally Absent - You met with him but your face shows that you are not interested with everything he tells you. You laugh when he is not joking or you look at your phone all the time 3. "Secret lang natin" - Telling all your friends that you are not interested in him, except to him personally 4. Shame him - To his face and in f...